Valentine’s Surf And Turf

This year, why not surprise your significant other with a Valentine’s Day Surf And Turf dinner at home? With some easy preparation and your gas grill, you can whip up this elegant and delicious meal in less than an hour.

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White plate with a Valentine's Surf And Turf dinner with a filet mignon, lobster tail, grilled asparagus, and a garlic herb compound butter.

Complete your elegant meal by starting with Cosmopolitan Martinis and a few Southern Cheese Squares. Then moving along with a small cup of Luxurious Crab Bisque and a Fried Goat Cheese And Roasted Root Vegetable Salad. Finally, finish off your romantic meal with Mini Cherry Cheesecakes and a shot of Espresso Irish Cream liqueur.

Valentine’s Day At Home

I don’t know what it’s like where you live, but here in Central Florida, any holiday that falls between New Year’s Day and Easter coincides with the insurgence of ‘snow birds’ and just people wanting to escape the cold and snow for a long weekend. So, you can imagine how busy and crowded our little beach community can get for Valentine’s Day.  

A loud, crowded restaurant isn’t relaxing and certainly isn’t romantic. But a leisurely meal at home, that doesn’t take a lot of time and effort to make yet feels as though it did, is the perfect alternative.

This meal makes it even easier because everything is cooked on your gas grill! The steak and lobster tail is beautifully charred on the outside and moist and tender inside then slathered with garlicky, herbed butter and paired beside grilled asparagus spears. Delicious.

How To Buy Fresh Lobster Tails

  1. Choose cold-water (Maine) lobster tails rather than warm lobster tails. Cold-water lobster is sweeter and the flesh is firm and white. Warm water lobster tends to have a mushy texture and a much different flavor.  You can tell the difference by looking at the shells. Warm water lobsters have black spots on their shells or yellow spots with a yellow band across the tail. Cold-water lobster tails do not have any markings. Cold-water lobster tails have a brownish shell and very pale gray meat. They will also be more expensive than warm water lobster.
  2. Avoid any tails that have any sign of yellowing or dull, discolored meat. There should be no gray areas at all. These are all signs that the meat isn’t as fresh as it should be.
  3. There should be no pungent or strong fishy smell.
  4. Check with your fish provider to see if the tails have been soaked in sodium tripolyphosphate. If so, avoid buying them.
  5. Look for tails that are from 5 ounces up to 12 ounces. These smaller tails still provide a nice amount of meat with a great texture. If they are too small or too large, the meat could be rubbery or flavorless after cooking.
Two raw butterflied lobster tails on a white marble slab.

How To Butterfly A Lobster Tail

Learning how to butterfly a lobster tail sounds intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be and will give you restaurant-quality results. 

Two raw lobster tails with a striped kitchen towel and kitchen shears.
Woman cutting the shell on a raw lobster tail.
  1. Pat the lobster tail dry. Use very sharp kitchen shears to cut down the center of the lobster shell, all the way down the tail, but not through the tail.
  2. Use your thumbs and fingers to spread open the shell, splitting it open so that it separates away from the meat on the sides.
  3. If there is a dark line down the center of the tail, use the tip of a knife to pull it out. This is the intestinal tract and although safe to eat, is unappetizing.
  4. Gently pull the lobster meat upward in one piece, separating it away from the bottom shell. Take care to leave the end of the meat attached to the fin. Push together the empty shell underneath the meat and place the meat on top of the shell, tucking it in the side just a bit to cradle the meat.
A wooden board with garlic and herb compound butter for a Valentine's Surf And Turf dinner.

Let’s Talk About Compounding Butter

Compound butter is a great way to finish a steak, seafood, chicken, or vegetable and add great flavor. It can be made with anything from garlic, fresh herbs, and smoked salts to syrups, fruit spreads, and sugar.

Because the main component is butter, using quality, high-fat butter is crucial to the end product. I like using European butter for the best taste. 

White plate with a Valentine's Surf And Turf dinner with a filet mignon, lobster tail, grilled asparagus, and a garlic herb compound butter.

Tips For Grilling A Perfect Filet Steak

  • Allow the steaks to come to room temperature before grilling. This will ensure the steaks cook evenly.
  • When searing the outside of the steaks, lay them on the hot grates and don’t move them for 2-3 minutes. This will get a crisp exterior that will keep the meat’s juices locked inside.
  • Let the steaks rest when they come off the grill to allow the juices to redistribute throughout the cooked steak.
  • Add compound butter to the meat while it rests for the best flavor.
Rare120 – 125 F4 minutes per side
Medium Rare125 – 130 F5 minutes per side
Medium135 – 140 F7 minutes per side
Medium Well145 – 150 F8 minutes per side
Well Done160 or above10 minutes per side
White plate with a Valentine's Surf And Turf dinner with a filet mignon, lobster tail, grilled asparagus, and a garlic herb compound butter.

How To Pair Wine With Surf And Turf

Choosing a wine that goes well with both beef and seafood can be challenging, but with a few tips, a great bottle for your Valentine’s Day Surf And Turf can be had.

Let’s start with reds. It’s pretty difficult to find a red wine that doesn’t pair well with red meat, but it can overpower the seafood. Looking for light-bodied, low-tannin reds that are distinctive but not overpowering is a good place to start.  

Pinot Noirs – An unoaked pinot noir is a balanced red wine that isn’t too sweet, sour, or bitter and has fruity notes of cherry, strawberry, or raspberry that would go well with a buttery lobster tail.

Lambrusco – This sparkling red wine can vary from crisp to robust and tangy or even floral. Its subtle sweetness goes well with the sweetness of the lobster and still has enough acidity to cut through the fattiness of the beef and compound butter.

If you’re more of a white wine fan, look for strong whites or even a good Champagne.

Chardonnay – an oaked chardonnay, with its creamy mouthfeel and notes of butter and vanilla, will make the lobster taste richer. Its acidity will cut through the fat in the steak.

Sauvignon Blanc is full-bodied like a red and is acidic enough to stand up to robust flavors. The dryness and bright flavors will bring out the subtle, delicate flavors of seafood.

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White plate with a Valentine's Surf And Turf dinner with a filet mignon, lobster tail, grilled asparagus, and a garlic herb compound butter.

Valentine’s Surf And Turf


This year, why not surprise your significant other with a Valentine’s Day Surf And Turf dinner at home? With some easy preparation and your gas grill, you can whip up this elegant and delicious meal in less than an hour.



For the steaks:

  • 1 tablespoon Kosher salt
  • 2 teaspoons freshly ground black pepper
  • 2 teaspoons granulated garlic
  • ¼ teaspoon ground thyme
  • 2 filet mignon steaks, about 2 ½-inch thick
  • 2 tablespoons olive oil

For the lobster:

  • 2 large lobster tails
  • 2 tablespoons olive oil
  • ½ teaspoon Kosher salt

For the compound butter:

  • 1 cup salted butter, room temperature
  • 810 large roasted garlic cloves
  • ¼ cup finely minced chives
  • ⅛ cup finely minced fresh parsley
  • ½ teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
  • Zest and juice from half of a lemon

For the asparagus:

  • 1 pound fresh asparagus spears, trimmed
  • 1 tablespoon olive oil
  • 2 teaspoons Kosher salt
  • 1 teaspoon black pepper


Prepare the steak rub.

In a small bowl, combine the salt, pepper, granulated garlic, and ground thyme.

With a silicone basting brush, brush the steaks with olive oil and generously sprinkle the rub on both sides and around the sides of the steaks.

Set the steaks aside to rest at room temperature for 30 minutes.

Meanwhile, prepare the lobster.

Use sharp kitchen shears to slice the top of the shell all the way to the base.

Use your fingers to gently pull the meat out and place it atop the shell. If necessary, tuck in the edges so that the lobster is cradled in the shell.

With a sharp knife, score the top of the flesh down the middle, but not all the way through the meat.

Brush the lobster tails with olive oil and sprinkle with Kosher salt. Set aside.

Make the compound butter.

In a medium bowl, stir together the butter, roasted garlic, chives, parsley, pepper, lemon zest, and lemon juice until well combined. 

Spoon the butter onto a sheet of parchment paper and roll it into a log. Chill in the refrigerator until needed or at least 10 minutes to firm up.

Preheat the grill to 450 degrees.

When hot, place the steaks onto the hot grates. Sear the steaks for 2-3 minutes per side.

Reduce the heat to 400 degrees.

Place the lobster tails with the meat side down onto the hot grates.

Close the grill lid and allow the lobster and steaks to cook for 5 minutes. The lobster should have golden grill marks across the meat.

Turn the lobster and the steaks and cook for 2-3 more minutes or until the lobster meat is opaque and the steaks are to the desired doneness. Use a meat thermometer to check. The lobster is done when it reaches 160 degrees. The steak will be 125-130 degrees for perfect medium-rare.

Meanwhile, toss the asparagus spears with olive oil, salt, and pepper. 

Remove the steaks and the lobster tails to a plate.

Top each steak and lobster tail with a small pat of the compound butter. 

Cover the plate loosely with foil. Set aside to rest.

Lay the asparagus spears onto the grill grates. Close the grill lid and cook for 3 minutes. Flip and cook the asparagus for another 1-2 minutes or until the desired doneness. Remove from the grill.

To serve, pile half of the asparagus spears onto the side of each plate.

Nestle a steak and a lobster tail beside the spears.

Top the steak and lobster with a generous pat of the compound butter.

Garnish the plate with thin slices of lemon, if desired.

  • Prep Time: 30 minutes
  • Cook Time: 14 minutes
  • Category: Main Dish
  • Method: Grill
  • Cuisine: American

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